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Thursday, April 23, 2009

Good Wife's Guide

Instructions

Step1

Keep nagging to a minimum. This rarely works and doesn't help the relationship. If you need him to do something, ask nicely and with respect.

Step2
Welcome him home with a smile and a hug instead of a sour face. Listen to him talk about his day, especially if it was a difficult one.

Step3
Plan little surprises for him. They do not have to be elaborate and can be as simple as getting him his favorite snack to let him know you are thinking of him. Or, plan a surprise date night with him.

Step4
Give him his space. Encourage him to go out and hang out with his friends for a break or engage in a hobby or sport that he likes.

Step5
Cook him his favorite dishes once in a while even if you would rather eat something else.

Step6
Express your love and appreciation often. Find time to be intimate even though you may be tired; it's an expression of your love for him.

Step7
Join him in activities that he's interested in. Watching Sunday football may not be something you would choose to do, but it's doesn't hurt to show an interest from time to time.


p.s. I am still waiting for my man, but the day I find him, I will touch his life in all good ways I can!
God Wills Good for those Who Wills Good for His Creation.

14 inspired and motivated:

Anonymous said...

i am sure you will..with thoughts like these he sure is gonna be a lucky dude!!! :D

Anonymous said...

hey seher please remove the 'word verification' na please.. :(

Anonymous said...

hey thanks Kajal :)
I sure hope so!

and your wish has been granted :)

LL said...

With that sort of love and devotion to spoiling him, he will be one happy man.

I can't tell you how important a touch or showing interest can be. And how empty a relationship can be when your wife has no inclination to do that.

Bravo!

Anonymous said...

okay...this one is not meant for men...

Anonymous said...

why? dont men have a heart?

Anonymous said...

LL,
thank you! I am totally inclined to love him and cherish him all along :) through highs and lows.

Z Sattar said...

This post should be read by every woman on earth.

AJ said...

Whoaaaa! Great. It should be equally adopted. :)

Anonymous said...

men can't be wives :D

Anonymous said...

but they can make good wives!

Anonymous said...

i was only kiddin' :)

Anonymous said...

ahaaaaaaaaaaa!!! so you are a man :P

Anonymous said...

A Hu --- man
yes !
:)

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